10 Simple Tips For Living in Extreme Cold| Minot Monday
Happy Minot Monday! Minot’s hallmark subzero temps are here at last. So today I’m offering 10 tips for living in extreme cold. Minot Monday is made possible through a partnership with BeLOCAL Minot. BeLOCAL is a guide to thriving in our town. Read the publication and follow them on socials for tips, tricks and events happening in Minot.
If you are new to Minot–or reading this because you are planning a move to Practically Canada in the near future–here are my two cents about living in extreme cold.
First of all–at a certain point, cold is cold. I honestly can’t tell a big difference between a 10˚ day and a -10˚ day. It’s cold. You’re not going to be hanging around outside for long periods. Cold is cold. Don’t get stressed about the number on the thermometer.
Second, I think there’s something magically refreshing about being exposed to extremely cold air. It’s a zip you’ll only understand once you’ve felt an arctic chill on your cheeks. If you can allow yourself to enjoy it (think small, like a finely made espresso in a tiny cup), living in extreme cold can bring you clarity, wake you up, stop a toddler tantrum in its tracks…Just remember, treat the cold like an espresso–tiny and powerful. Don’t loiter. That’s dangerous.
Hopefully that gives you a little encouragement. But if you still want more, here are 10 simple things I do when the extreme cold temps hit our region.
1. Shut Some Vents
It may seem counterintuitive, but this is one of my favorite cold-weather hacks for indoor comfort. When the temps outside drop, help your furnace focus on heating the areas of your home you use most by closing some supply vents. Doing so will force warm air into the rooms you’re using. For example, close the vents in the guest room and close the door. That heat will be forced into other rooms and keep the house warmer.
For us, we always close a few vents on the first floor at night, to force the extra heat upstairs into our bedrooms while we sleep.
2. Change Your Furnace Filter
Help your furnace work effectively by giving it a fresh filter. Even if it’s now quite due for a swap, this will help with heating.
3. Turn on Your Circulating Fan
If your furnace/thermostat has a “fan on” option, turn it on. The circulating fan will keep air moving in the house and help stabilize the temperature–instead of letting the air completely cool between times that the furnace is running. Doing so will make a difference, and it uses little energy.
4. Scoot the Beds
If your bed (or your kids’ beds) are against an exterior wall, consider scooting it away from the wall. If you’ve got great insulation you can skip this–but staying away from walls and windows will keep you more comfortable while you sleep.
5. Moisturize
During extremely cold days remember to moisturize. Run humidifiers if you’ve got them. Be intentional about putting lotion on your hands (my favorite is Eucerin.) Put on lip balm before you head outside. If your littles have sensitive skin, put vaseline on their cheeks to prevent them from getting chapped.
6. Remember Your Jewelry
Extreme cold can hurt and crack soft stones (like opals). If you regularly wear one, give it an oiling (rub it with olive oil) and put it away until spring.
You’ll also be lotioning more often, so I like to limit the rings I wear so they don’t get gunked up.
7. Plan Extra Time to Get Out of the House
Getting anywhere takes longer when the air outside is extremely cold. You can’t cut corners on getting coats and winter gear on–so you’ll need more time than usual. Add padding to your schedule.
And speaking of things that you’ll need to do upon leaving…
8. Cover Exposed Skin
When heading outside, cover as much skin as possible. The cold can be biting. Don’t leave without a hat over your ears and gloves on your hands. (Check out my ultimate winter gear guide for tips on purchasing cold weather clothes and gear.) I don’t wear a scarf, except on the coldest days–the wind on your neck can be brutal.
9. Let the Car Warm Up
Your car may not need to actually “get warm” to be driveable, but during subzero days you’ll want to let it warm up for your own comfort. This is something I typically skip…until the temp drops below zero.
And speaking of the car…
10. Help Your Car Start
Park your car a garage if you can. Extremely cold temps can cause your starter to freeze or malfunction. Keep jumper cables handy in case you can’t get it going.
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The Truth About Feeling Anxiety After Suffering From Anxiety
Let’s talk about feeling anxiety again after overcoming anxiety.
We got some hard news last week.
In fact it’s the kind of news that is “triggering” for me. Five years ago it would have plunged me into a full panic attack followed by inability to eat, anger, and a dark depression that froze me from carrying out basic daily tasks.
Although I now think of myself as “healed from anxiety and depression,” there is still a corner of my mind that is fearful it will return. Sometimes I’m afraid things will fall completely apart again. And if it does, how will I ever recover?
If you’ve ever dealt with ongoing depression or anxiety you may relate. When I lived with chronic cycles of anxiety and depression I didn’t know when the next lapse would come. When would the news arrive that would plunge me underwater? How long would it last? Would I survive? Would my marriage survive? How many things would fall apart in the meantime?
So, when the news came and met me in my kitchen while I was mid-blend on my nightly smoothie—I felt some fear. I felt an icy cold flash shutter down my body. I felt my heartrate pick up. My mind ran wild with a million thoughts—too fast to capture one and pin it down.
And all the while, I heard my mind whispering, “Is this it? Is this the moment that proves there really is no healing? You are anxious. If you’ve found healing you shouldn’t be anxious.”
After a few minutes, which felt much longer, I realized I wasn’t succumbing. No, this wasn’t a relapse—or the moment that proves healing doesn’t exist. It was a moment that proves that anxiety, sadness, overwhelm, and fear are part of the human experience.
“It was a moment that proves anxiety, sadness and overwhelm are part of the human experience.”
Let me lay some hard-learned truths on you:
If you’ve battled anxiety, depression, self-loathing or any kind of plaguing negativity—healing does exist and it is possible. This is not a cycle you need to live in forever.
Bad news will come knocking. There’s no way to live a life filled with only easy, happy moments.
Living above anxiety doesn’t mean never feel anxious again. It means you’re able to experience anxiety, process it and return to equilibrium and rational thought in a reasonable timeframe.
When something triggers you, it is possible to take your thoughts captive. Your mind works for you—you are its master, not a slave to runaway thoughts.
When something triggers you, you are allowed to grieve through the sadness and anxiety. Being healed from anxiety doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to feel those emotions.
You are allowed to grieve. If you are feeling anxiety again, even after overcoming anxiety–you aren’t broken.
The truth about grieving is that it is proactive, productive and comes to an end.
Here’s how things progressed for me: I didn’t magically feel instantly better. I didn’t get it figured out. My mind continued to race. My stomach felt sick. I didn’t drink my smoothie. I cried and questioned and mourned that I couldn’t create a quick solution. The night was restless. My eyes were puffy in the morning. Tears started up again over the coffee maker. All the while my heart was crying out in groans only the Holy Spirit could interpret—because I wasn’t even sure how to pray. Eventually I pulled myself together through most of the day. But then the tears started again over dinner.
Days passed. Slowly things got easier, more clear. The shock wore off and anxiety hadn’t swallowed me up. Nothing was fixed, but Derek and I were united in prayer and making an intentional choice to trust God. To stand on the Truth that He can bring blessing and redemption from awful circumstances. We’ve seen Him do it before and we believe He can do it again.
I can’t tell you how this particular season is going to resolve. But this is a testimony that you are allowed to feel anxious, even after overcoming anxiety.
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The Best Parenting Advice I Ever Got
Here’s some of the most helpful + encouraging parenting advice I’ve ever gotten. In fact, it may be the best parenting advice I ever got.
“Becoming a parent doesn’t mean stopping. It doesn’t mean putting the work God asks of you on hold. It’s not God’s way of telling you to hold off on ministry and using your gifts until your kids are sleeping through the night, in school, potty trained…fill in the blank.
“Becoming a parent in an opportunity to welcome a child into your life’s ministry. To continue to do the work of God—and let your children in on the joy of serving and loving God + others.”
These words were spoken from a pulpit years before I became a mom. But I still remember it vividly as a moment when the lie that children are a burden, not a blessing began to crumble. I used to live in fear that my dreams would never come to fruition if I was a mom. That is simply not true.
What is true is that after I became a mom, the things my heart naturally craved started coming closer. When I had all the time in the world, I was unable zero in on what gifts needed my attention most. I chased after jobs that came easy, but never felt quite right. The work paid, but I always ended up frustrated that my “real” gifts were sidelined. The things I dreamed of never got closer—even though on paper it looked like I had everything I needed to “go for it.”
“After I became a mom, I was able to hone the skill of prioritizing.”
After I became a mom, I honed the skill of prioritizing. Having a baby in one arm meant that I needed to let go of all the “filler” jobs and skills that were awkward to hold—even with both arms. Suddenly my other arm was open to embrace the things that God had actually equipped me to do. I needed to be picky when saying “yes.” I became bolder about walking toward the things I am naturally inclined to do. For me, it’s writing, speaking, teaching, telling stories. For you, it’s probably something different.
I started to see firsthand that the work I was naturally gifted for didn’t need to stop because I had kids in my home; this was an opportunity to welcome them into ministry with me.
This was an opportunity to set an example of praying through how my time should be used, confidently stating the skills I excel at, and showing how God wires us all uniquely for Kingdom work. By allowing my boys to apprentice in this work, I pray that they’ll grow into confident men of God—who can identify their natural gifts and put them to use.
I think back to that statement from a pulpit I haven’t seen in years almost daily as I work on the things God has called me to. So most days you’ll find me in our “office” sitting at this tiny table working as much as I can alongside my best helper and apprentice. Sure, there are tasks I reserve for quiet moments when no little fingers are around to “help” type—but I cherish the moments we spend side by side, each working on our projects. I hope he always remembers that he was included and an important part of the ministry of our family. That he was welcomed into our callings. Never the reason we hit pause on working for the Kingdom of Christ.
A Word to the Not-Moms
Now, a word to those of you without littles in the home. Listen to me. Being a mom is not the key to being more effective for the Kingdom. Don’t get hung up on that. Instead, learn from my mistake of believing that there will be a better time “someday.” Run from the lie that you need to pursue money, or someone else’s definition of success, or even your own ideal of success. You are uniquely created to do unique work. Be confident about your gifts and start praying today for courage to use them to their full potential. This is a practice I’m still working on, and would be honored to have you striving alongside me.
Minot Monday | 10 Unique Winter Date Ideas in Minot
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With Valentine’s Day quickly approaching, it’s time to talk about fresh date night ideas. I often find myself having a hard time coming up with date ideas that don’t involve eating out. Right now, eating out can be tricky for several reasons. Maybe you (or your employer) aren’t comfortable with public dining for pandemic reasons. Or maybe you don’t want to sabatoge your New Year’s diet goals. Or maybe quarantimes have taught you to love cooking for yourself.
10 Terrific Winter Date Ideas in Minot
Whatever your reason for wanting a date that isn’t your standard “dinner and drinks” I’ve got you covered. Here are 10 terrific winter date ideas in Minot that aren’t dinner.
Go to a Hockey Game
In Minot it’s easy to find a hockey game that fits your date night schedule. Bundle up and go root for the Minotauros or the MSU hockey teams. (Click the links for team schedules.)
Hit the Driving Range
Minot Parks recently opened a driving range inside the “MSU Bubble.” Open to the public every Sunday evening from 7:30-10pm for adults. See here for additional information. (More on the Bubble, it’s use and location is here.)
Go Mini Golfing
The Putt District downtown offers fun, neon mini golf year round. They’re open year round, seven days a week and stay open late (except Sunday). As a bonus to the fun activity, Putt District also serves beer, wine, Pride Dairy ice cream (in my opinion…the BEST!), and offers all-you-can-eat pizza with golf on the second Thursday of the month. See BeLOCAL’s feature on them here and information on hours, etc here.
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Try an Escape Room
Escape Point is Minot’s escape room. Puzzles are well thought out and challenging–and there are several options for only two players. (And lots of options for double dates.) See BeLOCAL’s profile of them here, and their website + room info here.
See a Movie
Still wary of going out to the movies? Catch a movie at Oak Park Theater. Audiences are capped off, the theater is clean, and there is plenty of space to socially distance. For a complete Oak Park Theater date night idea, see this Minot Monday post. If you still want more information, go to their website.
Go Skating
If weather is nice grab your skates (or borrow some from a friend) and hit one of Minot’s outdoor skating rinks. If the weather is not so nice, head to Maysa Arena to enjoy open skating. A list of skating rinks from BeLOCAL can be found here. Information on Maysa’s skating hours is here.
Head to the Hills
Take advantage of the snow for sledding or skiing date. Find a list of places to sled in town here. Information on cross country skiing in town is here. If you’d rather get out of town for downhill skiing head to Huff Hills or Bottineau Winter Park. Bottineau Winter Park also offers tubing (with a lift–so you don’t have to hike to the top of the hill.)
Go Curling
While they’re not open for lessons everyday, the Minot Curling Club offers “learn to curl” days/evenings and fun spiels for amateurs. I love curling. See a whole Minot Monday post on curling here. Check out the curling club’s event schedule here.
See a Show
Mouse River Players is back and offering limited seating shows–including one coming out over Valentine’s Day. Check in with their website for current and upcoming show information.
Relax Together
If relaxing is more your scene, spend some time relaxing together at LOR Spa. Check their website for a list of services–including couples massages.
More Positivity and Minot
For more encouragement for daily positive living and lots more stories about life in Minot, join me on Instagram and Facebook. For more Minot Monday posts–go here. To see more date ideas from BeLOCAL go here (pg 36). I’m so glad you’re here.
The Best Places in Minot to Donate Goods | Minot Monday
Minot Monday is made possible through a partnership with BeLOCAL Minot. BeLOCAL is a guide on living and thriving like a local in our community–something I’m passionate about. Today I’m sharing places in Minot to donate goods. Read on for the list.
The holidays have come and gone. You (and your kids) may have unwrapped lots of great gifts that are now settled into a place in your home. If you’re like me, this is often a time of year when I find myself with a big box of donation items ready to be taken away. Today I’m sharing the places in Minot to donate goods.
Please understand this list isn’t exhaustive. I’m sure there are other places in town that will accept your donations. But these are the biggies and will get you started on your journey to a decluttered home.
Thrift Stores
Dakota Boys and Girls Ranch Thrift Store
Best for: Clothing, furniture, household goods
Read about their mission and organization here.
See donation guidelines here.
Other things to know: pick up services can be arranged if needed, they also offer online thrift shopping (see here)
RSI ReStore
Best for: Clothing, furniture, household goods, sporting goods
Read about their mission and organization here.
Other things to know: they offer a monthly $8 stuff-a-bag sale
Goodwill
Best for: Clothing, furniture, household goods
Read about their mission and organization here.
See donation guidelines Here
Other things to know: pick up services can be arranged if needed
4R Home
Best for: Clothing, furniture, household goods, and some building materials
Other things to know: While most thrift stores in town will accept donations of limited building supplies, 4R Home has a section for these items. They offer lots of sales and low prices on furniture and clothing–which helps many families. They also donate a portion of proceeds to local charities (chosen by customers.)
On Base Options
Minot AFB Thrift Store
Best for: Gently used clothing, furniture, household goods, toys
Read about their mission and organization here.
See donation guidelines here.
Other things to know: Proceeds from the Thrift Shop go back to the Minot Spouses’ Club for Charities and Scholarships in and around Minot AFB, Minot, and other AF Organizations. Also, they are always in need of volunteers to help staff the store.
Minot AFB Airman’s Attic
**As of the date of publishing, the Airman’s Attic is currently closed and in the process of changing locations. Follow their Facebook page for updated hours and news about their reopening.**
Best for: Gently used clothing, furniture, household goods, toys–especially items that may be needed by a family before their household goods arrive
Read about their mission and organization here.
See donation guidelines here.
.Other things to know: This is a FREE, self-servicing thrift shop. Airman’s attic was a huge blessing to me when we finally closed on our house here in Minot. Derek was out of state for training, our house was empty and our furniture and other goods weren’t due to arrive for several weeks.
Consignment
Closet Connection
Best for: lightly worn clothing
Other things to know: you’ll need an appointment to consign your items, but they make the process very simple
Grow With Me
Best for: lightly used children’s clothing, maternity wear, toys and baby supplies
See consignment guidelines Here
Other things to know: they accept children’s clothing up to size 12
Community Organizations
YWCA
Best for: Donating new and unused items and items for their community closet. (See guidelines below.)
Read about their mission and organization here.
See donation guidelines Here (including their wishlist)
Other things to know: is our region’s only homeless shelter for women and children.
Domestic Violence Crisis Center
Best for: Donating new, unopened items (in non-COVID times other items are accepted as well), other items may be accepted, but call the office to be sure, also I believe they are currently accepting winter gear.
Read about their mission and organization here.
See donation guidelines Here (including their wishlist)
Other things to know: follow them on social media to see most up to date wishlists and other accepted donations.
Contact: (701) 852-2258
Men’s Winter Refuge
Best for: Donating household (think bedding and bath supplies) and mens clothing/footwear
Read about their mission and organization here.
See donation guidelines Here (including their wishlist)
Other things to know: in the past when I’ve donated, the staff has stressed the great need for quality (even lightly used) men’s boots and footwear.)
Minot Public Library
Best for: donations of books, DVD, magazines and games.
Donation guidelines here.
Other things to know: donations are sold in the book sales, which supports the library and its programs.
For More
For more on living like a local remember to check out and follow BeLOCAL. (I love their updates on local events!) If you love thrifting as much as you love donating, read this post all about places to score second hand treasures in town.
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Minot Monday | Oak Park Theater a Great Minot Winter Date Night
Happy Minot Monday, everyone! This week I’m excited to bring you a great Minot winter date night idea. Minot Monday is made possible though a partnership with BeLOCAL Minot. They share insider information and ideas that will help you live and thrive like a local in Minot.
As the weather finally dips to temps more familiar to a Minot winter, we are all starting to wonder the same thing: What can I do to get out of the house?? The pandemic and quarantimes makes that even more challenging–but as usual, Minot is here to provide. Our community is creative and resilient. This winter, like every other will pass (subzero windchills and all). And I assure you, if you look and keep an open mind, you won’t be bored for a moment.
As winter progresses, I hope to bring you lots of idea vignettes for winter outings of all kinds. Today is the first in that series. A great Minot winter date idea.
Coffee, Lights, Movie, Pizza a Great Minot Winter Date Idea
Here’s my date night plan. (Bonus–it’ll knock a couple things off of the Minot Christmas Bucket List!)
Start your evening by grabbing a hot beverage downtown. Black Iguana (inside Margies Art Glass Studio) and Prairie Sky Breads both have evening hours.
If you head out on this date before New Years, start your evening with a drive through Oak Park to take in Sertoma’s Christmas in the Park.
When the coffee (or cocoa) is gone, head over to Oak Park Theater for a movie. Oak Park is one of my favorite places in town. I love the atmosphere and their selection of nostalgic movies. All seats are only $4. (However, when I took Gideon, who is 2.5 years old, his seat was free!)
Right now capacity is limited, the staff is doing a superb job of keeping the space squeaky clean, and recently when I’ve attended a movie attendance has been low. All in all, a safe and fun activity, even during the pandemic.
Oh, and they have the BEST popcorn. Be sure to get some. You won’t regret it. (Pro tip: They’ll fill any competitor popcorn bucket for $4!)
Check their website or Facebook page for current showings and showtimes.
While the movie is preparing to start, get out your phone and put in a pizza order at Marco’s Pizza. It’s just down the plaza from Oak Park Theater. If you order online you can specify a time you’d like to pick it up. Time it for after your movie, and you’ll have a hot, fresh dinner waiting for you.
When the movie is over, pop in to Marco’s to grab your pizza. Currently, they are only offering carry out or delivery. Take your dinner home, or have a picnic in the car.
Join the Community
For more inspiration on intentional living, loving life in Minot, and great ideas be sure to join me on Facebook and Instagram. And be sure to follow our friends at BeLOCAL. They’ll keep you up to date on all things Minot. If you’re new to town, be sure to look at their digital publication. It’ll fill you in on lots of local favorites and tips!
Awesome & Affordable Gifts For the Whole Family with SCHEELS
This guide of affordable gifts for the whole family is partnership with Minot SCHEELS. All thoughts, opinion and picks are purely my own.
Christmas is almost here. And if you’re like me, there are still a few people to shop for and a few gifts left on your list to buy. I’m so excited to bring you this list of affordable gifts for everyone on your list. The best part? These are all available in store at Minot SCHEELS! You can mask up, waltz in and complete all your shopping in one quick trip.
The gifts you’ll find here are versatile, high quality and will be loved for years to come. And don’t forget, SCHEELS is lots more than a sporting goods store. They carry great toys, pro-team gear, accessories…I’m not joking when I tell you–you can do all your shopping right there.
All these inspiring gifts are $50 or less (with the exception of one bonus gift.) And to help you shop, SCHEELS and I are giving away a $50 gift card! Head to my Instagram to enter to win!
Snow Gifts
SCHEELS is chock full of items for fun in the snow. But if you ask me–these are the best and most versatile.
I grew up sledding and a metal saucer sled is the best sled ever invented. It’s timeless and it’ll last a lifetime. However, metal saucers are hard to come by these days. When I walked into SCHEEL’s this Christmas Vacation sled was one of the first things I saw and it immediately went into my cart. (Not to mention it’s totally awesome that it’s the Griswold sled.)
For kids on your list, there is nothing better than a snow-shovel that’s just their size. Growing up, I loved having a shovel to “help” my dad in the driveway. And I’ve never met a kid since who didn’t love having one too. (Bonus: It’s only $5.99–a great gift and totally affordable!)
Gear Gifts
As I said, the gifts in this guide are versatile. Just because they come from a sporting goods store, doesn’t mean the folks on your list need to be super sporty. These are some of my favorite gear picks. They are versatile enough for everyone to love, even if they have no plans to backpack the Pacific Rim.
A small, durable backpack. I love this one from Osprey. It’s beautiful, high quality and the perfect size. I bought one similar to this for my parents a couple years ago and they use it all the time. It’s perfect to take to the airport, overnights, on day hikes, or even to pack a picnic for nights at Music in the Park.
Compression sacks. Think these are just for backpackers? WRONG! This is a fabulous gift for anyone who travels (ever) or anyone who is a parent. Pack it in your luggage to store dirty laundry. Keep it in the diaper back with a change of clothes (and have a safe place to put clothes that got the wrong end of a blowout.) Take it to the beach, the pool, hiking, you name it.
Multifunctional gaiter. Especially in a pandemic year, a cute, comfy gaiter is a great gift. Use it as a scarf to combat Minot windchills… then quickly pull it up over your face as a mask. But it doesn’t stop there. These things have million uses! (And it comes in a billion patterns.)
Waterproof phone float. This is a great gift for anyone with a phone (read: everyone.) Perfect for lake days, pool days, water parks, or on the trail.
S-Biner Key Rack. I’ve been b//n in,m, mjmn u/uying this exact product for men on my list for about five years now. It’s insanely handy. Perfect for a hard-to-buy-for man on your list.
My Sporty Gift Picks
I set out to specifically find gifts that will work for nearly everyone on your list. While these are a little more “sporty” than some of my other picks, let me assure you they are very versatile and make great gifts!
Spikeball. This is the one item on this list that comes in over the $50 limit. However, Spikeball makes a great gift for a whole family. Or a couple. Or any college student who might be on your list. This will provide hours of outdoor fun for years to come.
A Multigym. These are great gift for anyone who likes to work out at home (or is unable to get to the gym because of COVID closures.) It also makes a great gift for a teenage boy, or an energetic younger boy who loves to climb and hang like a monkey.
Muscle Hook. I own one of these an LOVE it! This is perfect for anyone who wishes they could get to the chiropractor or massage studio more often. (Also great for those who suffer from stress headaches, or have chronically tight shoulders like me.) Yes, it looks weird and it’ll be tricky to wrap–but trust me, it’s awesome.
Clothing Gifts
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: SCHEELS has the best clothes. Think outside the “yoga pants and gym clothes” box. They carry great, quality brands and loads of items for everyday wear, for everyone on the list. Here are a couple things I love.
Men & Women Picks
Wild Tribute. Christmas gifting is a great time to introduce others (and yourself) to new brands. I love the designs out right now from Wild Tribute. Head to the store or SCHEELS online to see all the options. And the coolest thing about this brand is that a portion of profits is donated to National Parks and Public Lands.
Try a familiar brand in a different style. I’m in love with this hooded Carhartt flannel. (In fact I wore it in the Ultimate Gear Guide.) There are so many choices, but you’ll never go wrong with a classic.
Younger Picks
For school-aged girls on your list, you won’t go wrong with a Sherpa pullover in a fun print. I love this one from Boxcraft. For school-aged boys a neutral classic that can go from shirt to jacket will be perfect. This one from Ocean Current is so soft and warm. (I couldn’t find this online, but it’s fully stocked at the Minot store. Here is something similar online.)
Food/Drink Picks
A Yeti Rambler. I have a Yeti travel cup and, the hype is true. It will keep your coffee hot (like piping hot) for an insanely long time. I’m a huge fan of the Rambler because it can fit a lot of coffee and still fit in my car’s cupholder. Perfect for any coffee lover, commuter, or busy mom (who often drinks lukewarm coffee, or needs to reheat her mug multiple times each morning.)
The cutest camp mug. This little blue enamel coffee cup makes me feel like I’m camping, even when the windchill is subzero. It’s adorable and affordable.
A durable, Hydroflask lunchbox. This lunchbox is the perfect size for a student, road-tripper or anyone who takes lunch to work. My favorite feature is that it’s got a hard case so your lunch will never get smushed. (And they come in the prettiest colors!)
Fishing Rod Marshmallow/Hot Dog Roasters. My parents have a set of these from SCHEELS an they are always a hit. Fun to use, great conversation starters, totally unique. Perfect gift, right?
Warm Gifts
You’ll never go wrong with hats, gloves, mittens or cozy footwear. These are some of my favorite in store at SCHEELS this year.
You’ll never go wrong with hats for the family. I love this women’s Colombia beanie with Omniheat (such a great feature.) Also featured, the classic Carhartt and a girl’s CC beanie. SCHEELS has so many adorable kiddo hats.
Everyone has gloves, but not everyone has an amazing pair of glove liners. Glove liners are ideal for anyone living in a cold climate (read: Minot). These from Burton are warm, thin enough to fit under another thicker pair and will activate touch screens.
If you are buying for a kiddo–buy a great pair of mittens. Be sure they extend up the arm a bit (like these from Colombia) to save Mom and Dad from constantly replacing mittens while playing in the snow.
If you ask me, quality socks are always a good gift. Some of my favorites in store are these from Colombia (love that deer motif), Carhartt, and Stance (which come in a boat load of patterns an employees told me were a must to include on the gift guide…multiple employees on the floor were wearing them while I was there scouting gifts and said incredible things.)
Outside of socks, quality slippers are great. I’m a fan of these classic moccasins from Dearfoams. The feature that sells me on them is their great, thick indoor-outdoor sole. (Because slippers should double as footwear for grabbing the mail or getting something you forgot in the car.)
Accessory Gifts (For Women)
A small, thoughtful gift can speak volumes. (Especially for women–don’t we love it when we know someone has thought about us?) Here are some of my favorite accessories in store.
Coiled hair ties. I love these from Teleties.
Colorful barrettes. My favorites are these from Denim and Daisy. (I couldn’t find them online–but there are lots in store!)
Wallet accessories. This card elastic and wrist lanyard keep the essentials close at hand, not lost in your purse. (And they come in tons of fun colors and patterns.)
Happy Shopping!
I hope this guide has given you lots of inspiration for affordable gifts for the whole family. Remember to head to Instagram for a chance to win a $50 gift card to SCHEELS. (Giveaway ends Dec 16, 2020).
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Minot Monday | FREE Printable 2020 Christmas in Minot Bucket List
Happy Minot Monday! You guys had such a great response to the Minot Fall Bucket List, I’ve decided to keep it going. Today I’ve got a list of 10 things to do in Minot this Christmas. It’s the 2020 Christmas in Minot bucket list. Minot Monday is made possible through a partnership with BeLOCAL Minot. Check out their publication and follow them on Instagram for lots of HELPFUL tips and tricks for living and thriving like a local!
Christmas in Minot is a magical time. This year, things look different. But that won’t stop our adorable, creative town from being festive. As usual, Minot has shown up and thought outside the box to give residents plenty to do–despite predictably cold weather and unpredictable COVID restrictions.
So, while several of our favorite events are cancelled (read: the CP Holiday Train)–there’s still plenty to fill your December calendar. Here’s my list of 10 things to do in Minot this Christmas. (Scroll to the bottom for a PDF version.)
The 2020 Christmas in Minot Bucket List:
1. Sertoma Christmas in the Park
Take a drive through Oak Park and take in Minot’s best light display. The entire park is lit up with characters and animated displays. Admission is $5 per car (proceeds benefit the Sertoma Club) and they are open every night through January 2nd. This is a perfect way to fill a dull evening…or a perfect way to pull the kids out of a cranky, cabin-fever frenzy. Grab some cocoa, turn on the Christmas tunes and enjoy the drive.
2. Private Light Displays
Besides Sertoma Christmas in the Park, Minot has two private light displays open for public viewing all season. Both are set to music and can be viewed all season from your vehicle.
Olson Decorations
Find this display south of town. All the details are on their website here.
Schlect Family Holiday Light Display
Find this display in the Northwest. All the details can be found on their Facebook page.
3. Participate in Downtown Events
There’s nothing better than a small town’s downtown at Christmas. This year Minot’s downtown has scaled back events that have drawn large crowds in the past. But that doesn’t mean there isn’t lots of fun happening.
Downtown Holiday Selfie Scavenger Hunt
Explore downtown, take some selfies and get entered into a prize drawing. But hurry, this event only runs through December 5th! See event details here. Click this link and enter your name and email address to see the list of photo-ops to search for.
Downtown Window Walk
Downtown businesses have decked out their windows with holiday displays. Stroll downtown and take them in for and evening window walk on December 11 or a daytime walk on the 12th. Then vote for your favorite!
4. Poinsettias at Lowe’s
Escape the cold weather and breathe in the warm, humid air of a greenhouse in bloom. Lowe’s Garden Center is a spectacular sight, filled to the brim with vibrant poinsettias, Christmas decor and trees. Don’t miss out on this one.
5. Try the Santa Skate
When thinking about Christmas in Minot, remember to get out and be active. There are lots of options, but I’m in favor of trying out the Santa Skate at Maysa Arena. On December 23 Maysa Arena will be showing The Santa Clause on the big screen to watch while you skate!
6. Watch a Holiday Movie at Oak Park Theater
Keep an eye on Oak Park Theater’s website or Facebook page to see what movies will be headed to the big screen. They are known for bringing holiday favorites and nostalgic classics (like White Christmas) in for the month of December.
7. Bake a Locally Loved Scandinavian Delight
Try one of the 10 Scandinavian recipes I shared here. Minot is known for it’s love of all things Scandinavian and Nordic. And Christmas in Minot won’t be complete until you have something made of about 50% butter. (If you aren’t up for baking one for yourself, look to buy them here.)
8. Take in a Live Performance
Many services and performances are limited this year, but they are still happening. Make a point to enjoy a live performance before Christmas passes us by. Watch listings on the Visit Minot calendar for Cantatas (like this one.) Get ticket to the Mouse River Players Christmas performance. Or take in a virtual concert, like those offered from the Minot Symphony Orchestra.
9. Taste Something Christmassy
Make a point to taste something that tastes like Christmas this month. Grab a coffee from one of our great shops, buy a baked good or cookie, order a swanky cocktail, get a piece of pie to go. It’s up to you. Find a local place (bonus points if it’s a place you’ve never been) and order up. If you’re feeling brave, just ask the person at the counter to pick out their most festive item for you to try.
10. Buy a Local Gift
I won’t tell you to do all your shopping at small businesses. Sometimes that’s just not possible. But add purchasing at least one gift from a local shop to your Christmas bucket list. Minot has so many great places to choose from–or you can take a class and make something yourself!
(BONUS) Attend a Christmas Eve Service
Minot is full of welcoming churches. If you don’t have a church home, do a little Googling to find a Christmas Eve service to attend. Or reach out to me and I’ll help you out! In my opinion there is nothing more special than a church decked out for Christmas and a Christmas Eve service ushering in the Day we’ve all been waiting for!
I hope this is a great season for you (even if it’s totally different than what you are used to doing!) I hope you’ll join me on Instagram and Facebook–I’ll be sharing a daily Advent meditation and an inside look at how my house is enjoying Minot this season in my Stories. What are you looking forward to this season?
Minot Monday | 10 Scandinavian Holiday Foods for an Ultimate Feast
Happy Minot Monday! Today’s post is all about Scandinavian holiday foods. Read on to see why that qualifies for a Minot Monday post. And remember, these posts about life in Minot are made possible through a partnership with BeLOCAL Minot–a guide to living like a local. It’s full of local favorites and gems, and their Instagram page (and stories) are a great source for local happenings and living tips. Be sure to check them out and give them a follow.
The “big food” holidays are nearly upon us. Gatherings may be different this year, but that’s no reason to skimp out on preparing and sharing good food. If you are a transplant to Minot, this is a golden opportunity for you.
Your friends and family may give you a hard time about living in a place with subzero wind chills, or tease you about your town being “the worst assignment in the Air Force…” But you know better. You know Minot is a gem. You know this place is weird in the best way and that deep down, everyone else is jealous that you’re on such a great adventure.
When it comes time to gather round the table with your family (of no more than 10, of course) or to pack up holiday treats to mail off to friends, take this moment to wow them with one of these Scandinavian holiday foods that regularly grace a Minot table in the coldest months of the year.
I’ve rounded up 10 recipes for Scandinavian holiday foods that are also uniquely Minot. I hadn’t heard of any of these until I moved to Minot, now I’ve eaten *most* of them and even cooked a few in my own kitchen. Embracing local culture and heritage has deepened my love for our town, and made our time here even sweeter.
Between now and New Year’s I’ll be baking through as many (but not lutefisk) on this as I can. Follow along on Instagram to see how they turn out!
Sandbakkels
“Sandbakkels’ (meaning sand tarts) are a Norwegian sugar cookie. They are a Christmas tradition in many families.”
Wikipedia
Sandbakkels are the first Scandi-treat I baked this season. A few years ago I was gifted sandbakkel molds, but I still haven’t perfected them. They are easy to make and taste delightful, but I have a knack for over filling the molds and making them a little too thick. If you are looking for something simple to try, this is a good place to start.
I use this recipe. But this one has better instructions and photos of the process.
Lefse
“Lefse is a traditional soft Norwegian flatbread. It is made with potatoes, flour, butter, and milk or cream. It is cooked on a large, flat griddle. Special tools are used to prepare lefse, including long wooden turning sticks and special rolling pins with deep grooves.”
Wikipedia /lefse
Lefse is a big deal around here. So big, I dedicated an entire Minot Monday post to it last winter. This recipe has great photos and instructions. You do need a few special tools to prepare it, so my best advice is to make friends with a local who has the supplies and can guide you through the process.
Rosettebakkels (Rosettes)
Rosettes are thin, cookie-like deep-fried pastry of Scandinavian origin. Rosettes are crispy and typified by their lacy pattern. They are traditionally made during Christmas time…They are made using intricately designed rosette irons.
Wikipedia
Here’s a recipe from Preppy Kitchen and one from the Sons of Norway.
Fattigmann
To many, fattigmann–which can be translated as “poor men”–are an essential part of Christmas, a requisite member of the syv slags kaker, or seven sorts of Norwegian Christmas cookies. These represent an important element of the baking tradition in that they’re fried.
From Outside Oslo
Fattigmann is definitely on my list of “to-bakes” this season. I LOVE this article from Outside Oslo. She clearly explains the nostalgia behind fattigmann and the different types of Norwegian Christmas cookies.
Her recipe for fattigmann is clear and it’s the one I’ll be trying out.
Krumkake
Krumkake is a Norwegian waffle cookie made of flour, butter, eggs, sugar, and cream…a special decorative two-sided iron…is traditionally used to bake the thin round cakes.
Wikipedia
To make krumkaka, you’ll need a special iron. You can find one here (or make friends with a local who owns one.) Here’s a recipe from Lefse Time and a recipe from Sons of Norway.
Skolebrød
Skolebrød or Skolebolle is the Norwegian name for a type of sweet roll made from yeasted dough filled with custard and decorated with icing dipped in grated coconut. It was usually put in school lunches as a dessert or sold at bake sales, hence the name.
Wikipedia
Classically a favorite in the fall, Skolebrød’s deep aroma of cardamom–a perfect addition to chilly days and nights.
Outside Oslo shares this recipe for you to try out.
Pulla Bread
Pulla is a type of dessert or pastry flavored with cardamom. It’s served as coffee table treat with coffee or tea…Usually pulla is baked as a small brioche style or as a braided loaf.
Wikipedia
Pulla bread is not strictly a Scandinavian holiday food. However, because it can be highly decorative, it makes a great addition to a holiday table. Here is a classic recipe with lots of successful reviews.
If you want something more strictly Christmas, try this recipe for Julekaka (Christmas Bread) from Outside Oslo.
Kringla
These twisted sugar cookies don’t require any special tools, which makes them a great option if this is your first crack at making Minot holiday favorites. Here’s an easy recipe from Pillsbury.
Swedish Meatballs
We’ll wrap up our list with a couple non-sweet Scandinavian holiday foods. The holidays in Minot won’t be complete until you’ve had a couple Swedish meatballs. A friend recommends this recipe–but her mom makes this note: “I have always rolled the meatballs and baked them in the oven instead of frying them. I always seem to break the meatballs trying to turn them while frying.”
Lutefisk
Lutefisk is dried whitefish. It is made from aged stockfish, or dried and salted cod, pickled in lye. It is gelatinous in texture after being rehydrated for days prior to eating.
Wikipedia
Lutefisk and meatball dinners are typically plentiful in Minot from October through January. (This year may be different due to the pandemic.) Making lutefisk is an intense process, so you probably won’t cook it yourself. However, you can take a look at this article describing the process. If you simply must taste it, you can buy some at local grocery stores.
Enjoy Minot with Scandinavian Holiday Foods
Try one or try them all. No matter what your holidays look like this year, make the most of your days in Minot by diving into the quirky culture you’ll find here.
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The Ultimate What To Wear For a Minot Winter Guide
This post all about what to wear for a Minot winter was made possible through a collaboration with Minot Scheels. All thoughts and opinions are my own. No links are sponsored.
I am so excited about today. This is the day that I tell you all about what works for me (and experienced locals and transplants) when it comes to winter gear. It’s the day I drop the Ultimate North Dakota Winter Gear Guide in your lap. This is the day I’ll tell you all about what to wear for a Minot winter.
With the help of Minot Scheels I’ve compiled this big guide for you. Additionally, there will be a try on session on my Instagram (and Facebook) stories later today. And I’ll be continuing to talk about this topic as we dive head first into the winter months.
About The Guide
Before we get to the guide, a couple things.
Shopping in Minot
First of all, in Minot, there’s really only one place you get can ALL the winter gear. Clothes, outerwear, hats, gloves…everything you need for the whole family. And that place is Scheels. I’m old school, so I find it really nice to be able to try gear on, feel it, and talk to someone who knows the products face to face. Scheels is the place to do that. The staff is SO helpful. And they know their products. They’ll give you tips, without ever overselling–or taking you for a sucker.
Winter attire, especially outerwear and boots are an investment. Trying them on and talking it out is super helpful. When I knew I wanted to create a winter gear guide for you, I approached Scheels to see if I could look through their gear to make recommendations for you. I’m so grateful they said YES!
The Guide is a Result of YOUR Questions
Second, this guide came about as a result of reading many, many threads and questions from new transplants to Minot, wondering what to wear for a Minot winter. That’s why I’m here. To fill that void, answer those questions and give you something to refer back to. These are my suggestions. I’ll never try to oversell you. (I’m not making any money on your purchases…so I literally have nothing at stake, other than you comfort.) I’m just a friend, who really wants you to enjoy your time in Minot. And having the right attire will help you do that.
Locals, Transplants, Milspouses and Experts
Third (and last), I’ve done a bit of crowd sourcing for this post. I’ve picked the brains of local friends. I read all the threads and suggestions from milspouses pertaining to what they’ve found helpful during their Minot winters. Lastly, I chatted with experts at Scheels. Not to see what they wanted me to push…but because these are moms and dads who live here. I want to know, with the whole store at their disposal, what they’d choose for their family. And I’m thrilled to pass that insider information on to you today.
The Ultimate Guide to What to Wear for a Minot Winter
Let’s get started.
At the end of the post there is a downloadable version of the guide. It’s a summary of what I’ll explain here. First, I’ll break all my recommendations down by category and why I recommend each.
What to Wear Indoors, Day to Day
These are basic items and how I dress day to day during the winter months in Minot. Winter dressing 101 is to know that layering is key. Lots of the items below will help you do just that. (This first list is geared toward women, but the same ideas also apply to mens’ needs.)
Tops
- Long Sleeve Shirts–This is your most versatile item. Buy them up in neutral colors to layer under cardigans, sweaters and sweatshirts. I used this one in my try-on session, and also love this one from Nike.
- Thick sweaters–For a simple, unlayered outfit, just pull on a nice, cozy sweater. The flat lay above shows four that I love.
- Long, oversized sweaters–folks who live here will tell you how nice it is to have clothes (and coats) that cover the booty. Longer sweaters will help keep you cozy.
- Cardigans–Cardigans will add a layer of warmth to any outfit. For a lighter layer I really like this one from Eden Ruth.
- Flannel Button Ups–**MUST HAVE** Flannels are great for layering, wearing open like a cardigan, wearing as a base layer under a sweater/sweatshirt. They can be dressed up or down.
- Fleece/Sherpa Pull Over–**MUST HAVE** I insist that everyone who lives here owns a fleece or sherpa pull over. In my try-on you’ll see several. Like this one from Patagonia. I like it because it’s fleece on the inside and knit on the outside, so it looks a little classier. This sherpa from Eden Ruth looks great and is SO cozy.
- Fleece/Sherpa Zip Up–**MUST HAVE** Again, I insist that everyone owns a full zip fleece or sherpa layer. These can be worn as cardigans or jackets on less chilly days (when layered with a sweater). They also extend into jackets in the spring. Overall, this is a great investment. In our family photo I choose to wear a fleece/knit combo from Kuhl, it’s versatile because it’s so long. In my try-on I opted for a buffalo check from Columbia and a sherpa from Kuhl.
Legs and Feet
- Leggings and Fleece Lined Leggings– These are the basic, long sleeve T of the lower body. Warm leggings pair great with quality socks and boots. They can dress up an oversized sweater or sweater dress. Or, they can be layered under jeans or joggers for added warmth. Oh, and leggings are also perfect for lounging on those days you simply don’t go outside. I like these high waisted leggings from Eden Ruth.
- Joggers or Fleece Lined Joggers–Comfy and roomy enough for an extra layer underneath. I chose these for my try on session. Here is a lined version for extra warmth.
- Skinny Jeans–Skinnies are easiest to tuck into boots (which you’ll be wearing all winter.)
- High Quality Socks–Don’t skimp on your socks. Those made from natural fibers (like wool) are a great option. Smart Wool is a favorite brand, and they last a long time. Just remember to get socks that come up high enough so you don’t have exposed skin at your ankles.
- Boots–Boots, even snow boots are daily attire through the winter. I like to have a pair for being in snow/being active in snow (folks swear by BOGS, Sorels and Kamiks) and a pair of booties for lighter activity and errand running (like these Sorel Explorers or Sorel Emelie Chelsea Boots.)
- Slippers–Someone recently described quality slippers as a survival item. Personally, I own a pair of Minnetonkas, but loads of people here swear by their Ugg slippers.
Day to Day for Kids
The same rationale applies to kids when it comes to day to day attire. But there are a few special considerations. Here’s what I recommend.
- Lighter layers–kids are more active than adults, so keep their layers slightly lighter.
- Zip up fleece–these are much easier to get on a toddler than a pull over
- Pull over fleece–these are a great layer for older kids who can manipulate their clothing on their own.
- Long underwear–a tight base layer to put under snow pants or for long play sessions outdoors will keep them cozy.
- Thumb Holes–These make getting outdoor gear on easier and keep shirts in place under mittens.
- Quality Socks–Don’t skimp on little toes. Invest in natural fibers or water wicking socks.
- Slippers
Outdoor Gear to Wear for a Minot Winter
The Basics
Here are the basic things everyone will need to gear up for time outdoors. First a list, then individual considerations. These are all investment items that should last many years. (Except for kids, who will–unfortunately–outgrow them before their use is up.)
- Coat
- A hat you feel confident in
- Thin gloves
- Thick mittens or gloves
- High quality socks
- Boots
- Snow pants
Coat Considerations
Use this as a check list when you are purchasing your coat.
- Length–I hear this tip over and over–get a coat that is long enough to cover your booty. Personally, I don’t think a knee length coat is necessary. My preference is just past the tush. I really like this one from Columbia. I’m a HUGE FAN of their OmniHeat liners, which trap body heat and keep it inside. Basically, it makes you your own heater.
- Hood–Your coat needs a hood. Something with fur or faux fur will help keep the wind at bay.
- Water Resistant–a must
- Wind Resistant–a must, as wind is the biggest contributing factor to our frigid winters
- Check the rating–Your coat should be rated for negative temps
- Interior Pockets–The cold will zap the battery life out of your phone. Keeping your phone in an interior pocket will preserve its life.
- Spandex Cuffs at the Sleeves–this is a nice feature for keeping wind and snow out of the arms.
- For Men–If your husband is like mine, he’ll only own one coat (I own two). Make sure it is functional enough for play and shoveling, but classy enough to wear out to church and date night.
- For Kids–A snow bib/buttons at the waist is a nice feature that will keep the coat in place and keep wind and snow from sneaking inside.
Boot Considerations
A checklist when shopping for boots.
- Waterproof–a must for both snow boots and casual boots
- Check the Rating–be sure they are rated for our weather.
- Tread–the tread on any footwear worn in winter should be deep.
- Height–Boots for working in the snow or playing in the snow should be at least mid-height.
- Moms Swear By Them–the vast majority of moms I talked to and read comments from swear by BOGs for their littles. Their pull on style makes them easy to get on and off. Just be sure they are rated for negative temps. (Gideon is wearing these in our photos and I’m wearing these.)
Hat Considerations
I don’t care if you “aren’t a hat person.” Around here, you’re a hat person from November to March. Here are some things to consider.
- Cover the Ears–a hat for everyone in the family should cover the ears and not ride up. For kids it’s really nice to be able to tie or fasten a hat under the chin.
- Lined Hats–I’m a fan of OmniHeat from Columbia. It traps your own body heat to keep you extra warm. This is one that I love. But a knit hat with fleece lining is also great.
- Own Several–Everyone should own a couple hats. This way you’ll always have a dry one to wear.
Hand Considerations
Here are things to look for when keeping your hand warm and dry.
- Thin liner gloves that will work on your phone/touch screen to layer under a thicker pair—also great for rezipping jackets or helping put gloves back on without needing to fully expose your hands. I like these.
- Thick gloves or mittens as a top layer. If you really want to look like a local get some Kincos.
- Top Layer Should Be Wind and Waterproof
- Have two sets of inner and outer gloves so you’ll always have a dry set
- For kids, a single layer of water/wind proof mittens is good
- For kids, mittens that go up the arm a bit are key. I like these from Columbia.
Considerations for Snow Pants
- For kids, bib style is best
- The Knees–For kids (and adults too) snow pants that are reinforced at the knees are best
- Should be wind and waterproof
For More Minot Love
I hope this has been helpful to you as you navigate what to wear for a Minot winter. Again, a huge thanks to Scheels for giving me space to find all the items I’d recommend to you in one place. For more on the winter attire and gear guide, be sure to head over to Instagram. I’ll save all the stories pertaining to winter gear in a highlight for you.
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You may also like this post on items that will help you survive a Minot Winter, or this one which discusses what a Minot winter is really like.
